For survival in the world that we live in, one needs to not dwell too much in their own minds. What happens around you may drive you mad/crazy because what you perceive and what is are not the same.
Do you know that humans can be very humble and very cruel also… no one intends to hurt another- that is true but regardless whether good or bad other peoples’ actions have an infect on your emotions.
Correct me if I’m wrong, human beings live double lives or have different personalities that they exchange depending on the conditions and people they deal with at that moment. For example- a man is capable of having a wife and children and a girlfriend with a dog or a child of her own and to keep both worlds apart but be able to deal with them.
A man/woman can love completely and devotedly but still find time and interest in other things such as porn, other women and drugs (alcohol and weed)…these things happen and are done simultaneously. But to be honest, we all do it in our lives in some point in time.
It’s not about hurting anyone or making new commitments, it’s about making yourself happy whilst your better half can not. We are selfish species that always thinks that “as long as s/he doesn’t know, it won’t hurt them”… forgetting that, the truth always and always prevails at the end.
We repeat our mistakes in the same pattern but with different approach and aspects in mind- thus, I say- it is with no intention to harm/hurt the other but to keep ourselves happy. Greed, envy, loneliness, stress, lack of s*x and insecurities lead to the life style of lies and deceit (99% of human kind).
This does not mean dishonesty or breaking your promises. Ok, once caught- first deny everything; second do reverse psychology; third give in and ask for forgiveness but don’t tell the whole story, why is that? Because we know that the other person will not understand your doings and the other side of your world, the back side of the coin, the other side of your mind.
This is what makes humans call each other names such as: Evil, disappointment, embarrassment, betrayal, twofaced, bastard and liar.
But, be aware and learn it all… they mean you know harm but just have adopted the way of living as from far back in history.
The best you can do is, do not think too much of other people’s actions and keep yourself happy first. There is no shame in that.
Do you know that humans can be very humble and very cruel also… no one intends to hurt another- that is true but regardless whether good or bad other peoples’ actions have an infect on your emotions.
Correct me if I’m wrong, human beings live double lives or have different personalities that they exchange depending on the conditions and people they deal with at that moment. For example- a man is capable of having a wife and children and a girlfriend with a dog or a child of her own and to keep both worlds apart but be able to deal with them.
A man/woman can love completely and devotedly but still find time and interest in other things such as porn, other women and drugs (alcohol and weed)…these things happen and are done simultaneously. But to be honest, we all do it in our lives in some point in time.
It’s not about hurting anyone or making new commitments, it’s about making yourself happy whilst your better half can not. We are selfish species that always thinks that “as long as s/he doesn’t know, it won’t hurt them”… forgetting that, the truth always and always prevails at the end.
We repeat our mistakes in the same pattern but with different approach and aspects in mind- thus, I say- it is with no intention to harm/hurt the other but to keep ourselves happy. Greed, envy, loneliness, stress, lack of s*x and insecurities lead to the life style of lies and deceit (99% of human kind).
This does not mean dishonesty or breaking your promises. Ok, once caught- first deny everything; second do reverse psychology; third give in and ask for forgiveness but don’t tell the whole story, why is that? Because we know that the other person will not understand your doings and the other side of your world, the back side of the coin, the other side of your mind.
This is what makes humans call each other names such as: Evil, disappointment, embarrassment, betrayal, twofaced, bastard and liar.
But, be aware and learn it all… they mean you know harm but just have adopted the way of living as from far back in history.
The best you can do is, do not think too much of other people’s actions and keep yourself happy first. There is no shame in that.
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