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Declaration

‘I HAVE HIV/AIDS’- that is along the lines of words said by ZOMBO, a well known dancer and singer because of Kwaito star Author Vuvuzela.

Look- the virus does not come into you today and attack tomorrow…so how come his disclosure is now suddenly a huge deal and people must donate money to his trust fund??? Just think about it! Does that mean fun is over now!?! Help is needed!!?

I watched our so much loved TV station Live under SABC Mzantsi last Friday and heard the Live presenter (Andile) asking him to share his story with the world…

Why do people cry freedom when they see struggle is coming but not realizing that they are the cause of the havoc? We are always blaming the other and follow others where ever we are pushed to go. Blind mice I say. I work from 8 am to 4:30 pm. And I have bills of my own to takecare of. Other people have pets and kids and installments…

Not to brag or showoff – I pay charity monthly to people who can not do for themselves as I do- children.

Now tell me, HOW ON EARTH can you expect me to give money to a grown man whom was able and capable to save, work and make money like me!?! His reasons for not taking care of himself are not my responsibility. Him being uneducated about life or circumstances of things you allow to happen- is not my responsibility.

Not that I don’t like him- yes, I like him and think he was good at his dancing and singing (South Africans might remember his tinted hair- blonde). Let’s be reasonable- take care of yourself now so that you don’t make a joke of yourself later on like him.

Protect yourself! If you are infected already - live your life happily and to the fullest by healthier food and things. Be happy and love yourself more than anything. There is no difference between YOU (Who is HIV Positive or has AIDS) and me…

Accept who you are and what has happened to you and move on with life…

Be happy and stay safe.

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