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Opening and closure

There is always an opening page where full introduction is made.

Here is when you make sure that you leave an impression for come backs. You impress so, much that you actually forget who you really are yourself. People always get taken by new energy and new fresh ideas that hit them like a splash of quenching cold water on a sunny day.

The eye always deceives us into believing or being taken into play by new people and things that we are seeing for the first time. Assumingly this is what most men call LAST and it is what most women call OPPORTUNITY COST- literally referring to the economic meaning of the term opportunity cost.

When you connect with a new person- you feel that you are moving on the same line and you tend to agree on everything…magic isn’t it!?! Yeah, well- that quickly vanishes as you take time to know the person or thing that firstly got you impressed.

Rather, be interested in knowing more and grow together into knowing that new person or new thing you have come across in your life. Typical example from my side is…economics- not really something or subject I would embrace by choice but it’s a must for me to complete my BCom.

My point here is- quit while you still at it quit now and don’t be sorry later. Don’t fall for the boosted enthusiasm of first impression prepared to blow you over…literally.

Open a book and read it before deciding just by looking at the cover that it will do you good/ harm.

Go through the first page and make closure as you conclude on the last page of the book.

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